How Sex Toys Can Help a Fading Relationship in Bed

12/17/2012 18:50

 

How Sex Toys Can Help a Fading Relationship in Bed

Have you and your partner been together for some time and you feel that you are no longer on the same wave, sexually speaking? Would you like to make things right and you do not know how? The solution is simple, fun, affordable and really effective: sex toys.

Before you dismiss the idea, just take a look at the many problems that sex toys can solve:

  1. Do you or your partner have a hard time expressing your wishes and expectations in bed?

Buy the sex toys that can do it for you. You can start with small things, like a silk whip if you like to feel in control and aggressive, or a pair of furred handcuffs if you would rather play vulnerable. Your partner will certainly get the message.

  1. Do you feel that you do not live up to your partner’s expectations or your partner does not live up to yours?

Prelude is the most important step to orgasm, and, if the traditional kissing and caressing is not enough, you would be surprised what a pair of eatable panties, a provocative outfit or a vibrator can do.

  1. Is your sex life boring?

Spice it up with a few sex toys. You can shop for items separately, from cock rings and vibrators to combinations of the two, in different shapes, colors and textures, or you can choose a bondage kit. They will stimulate your imagination to try new games and new positions, and your bedroom experiences will never again be boring.

Of course, the list could continue, but, in order to make sure that you obtain the best results, please remember the following tips:

  • Never be ashamed to talk openly about sex and to try new things! There is nothing wrong in wanting your relationship to be fulfilling, and everything that brings you or your partner pleasure is not only allowed, but recommended.

  • Never lose your self confidence! If your partner had sex with you before, he or she will do it again and, as long as you keep an open mind and you do your best to satisfy him or her, things can only get better.

  • Never push your partner into doing something that he or she does not agree to. Even if you think that using a certain toy will bring you both new and thrilling sensations, it will not happen if you use that toy without your partner’s agreement.

  • Never let your partner unsatisfied. Perhaps he or she needs a little more time or a different position in order to reach orgasm. If you pay attention, you will notice what drives your partner crazy with pleasure and use it to your advantage. You will see that giving pleasure is just as satisfying as receiving it.

  • Never stop enriching your sex toys collection. Your sexual adventures should not end with the first vibrator or bondage kit you buy. Try new items periodically, no matter if they serve a different purpose or they just differ in size, shape, material, color or flavor.

This should be enough to make you see that sex toys can indeed make wonders for your relationship an all its levels. After all, you know that all the differences you and your partner have can be successfully solved in bed.